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Letter to ‘Abdu’l-Baha – From an Individual

 

Inspired by the 100th anniversary of the release of the Tablets of the Divine Plan and the Dec. 29, 2015 letter from the House of Justice,  many clusters and Baha’i Institutions are gathering together to write letters to ‘Abdu’l-Baha, setting forth their goals for the next 5 years, and fervently asking for His assistance.

This idea captured my imagination, and I thought I would write my own letter.  I had such a great time writing it, that I thought I’d share it, hoping that it will inspire you, wherever you are, to write your own letter.

 

Dearly loved ‘Abdu’l-Baha,

This is a broken winged bird, in so many ways, desiring to soar in Thy limitless space, fervently desiring to find an area of service which best suits my talents, skills, training and material resources.

You know how badly I wanted our cluster to be one of the ones which established a programme of growth, during this plan, and it breaks my heart that our cluster has not had the collective effort required to sustain the 2 initiatives we tried.

Please let me accept that without a shared spirit of collaboration among the Plan’s three protagonists–the individual, the community, and the institutions, we didn’t have the prerequisites required for these undertakings.

Help me remember that I can’t do it alone – that everyone has a share in the work of the Faith.  Without a core group of willing participants, I am incapable of mobilizing individuals by myself.  Please raise them up for me, and let me recognize them when they arrive.

Help me to remember that in previous plans, I sacrificed rest and comfort and left my home to journey to unfamiliar lands and homefront outposts. I set aside my own interests for the common good. With limited means, I sacrificially contributed my share of resources. I taught the Faith to multitudes, to groups in various settings, and to individuals in my home. I quickened souls and helped them on their own paths of service, disseminated widely the Baha’i writings and participated in deep study of the teachings.  I strove for excellence in all fields, engaged diverse peoples of all strata in conversations pertaining to the search for solutions to humanity’s ills, and initiated efforts for economic and social development.

I understand that in the coming plan, the requirements are both urgent and sacred, and I know that when sacrificially and persistently addressed, we may hasten “the advent of that Golden Age which must witness the proclamation of the Most Great Peace and the unfoldment of that world civilization which is the offspring and primary purpose of that Peace.”  I became a Bahá’í because I wanted to be part of that process.  Please keep me steadfast and unwavering in my determination, till I draw my last breath.

I am a determined to fully participate in the current Plan and am eager to advance further along the path that experience has marked out.  I long to see a significant advance in the process of entry by troops and I’m not afraid of the immense exertion necessary to bring to fruition the seeds that have been so lovingly and assiduously sown and watered in the five Plans that preceded it.

In My Role As An Individual 

Personal Transformation 

Help me to have a heightened understanding that comes from efforts to apply the teachings in different contexts.

Instead of allowing my habit of disappointment in the world to grow, please help me have confidence that a better world is being created; help me to help myself and others become more conscious of the spiritual forces at work, and encourage conscious contact with them.  

Help me to find the right balance between “doing” (arising to serve and to accompany fellow souls), and “being” (increasing my understanding of the divine teachings and mirroring forth spiritual qualities in my life).  

In My Neighbourhood

Trusting in the flow of assistance that finds its origin in the imperatives laid out in the Tablets of the Divine Plan, help me to turn my attention to serving the residents of my town and my cluster.

I want to learn through action, how to act more systematically, making goals and plans in quarterly cycles of activity and learning to depend more and more on the potent confirmations from the divine realm.

In the expansion phase, help me invest time and focused attention on visiting homes and having firesides; and in the consolidation phase help me work more systematically at studying the relevant materials and finding creative ways to share them with others.

Help me to make my home a venue for community-building activities and make me a point for the diffusion of the light of divine guidance.  

Conversations:

Please prepare the hearts of receptive souls and guide them to me, so that I can have conversations on spiritual themes, prompted by the receptivity and experiences of all of those involved.

Please bring me into many social spaces, so a wider array of people can become familiar with the teachings and help me find ways to consider seriously the contribution they can make to the betterment of society.

In all my conversations with others, please help me to

  • initiate discussions which explore spiritual reality
  • improve my ability to express profound concepts
  • increase the number of times I am able to elevate conversations
  • become more adept at discerning when I have found a hearing ear
  • decide when to be more direct in sharing the message
  • remove the obstacles to understanding
  • help seekers to embrace the Cause

Help me find ways so that my friends and neighbours can realize how society around them can be refashioned.

Help me find ways to nurture environments where the hesitant can be reassured, the inhabitants can see the rich possibilities created by working together, and help me to encourage others to arise to serve the best interests of our society.

Let me take full advantage of opportunities afforded by my personal circumstances and engage in conversation with people I come in contact with in daily life about the spiritual and material conditions of our communities.

Devotional Gatherings:

Help me to encourage the practice of gathering for collective worship, so I can nurture in myself and others a much deeper connection with the Revelation of Baha’u’llah.  Help the ties that bind all of the participants grow more affectionate, and let the qualities of mutual support, reciprocity, and service to one another stand out as features of an emerging, vibrant culture among those involved in these devotional gatherings.

Help me to encourage others to be in the vanguard of offering their own devotional gatherings, so that our efforts can spread to hundreds of people in our town.

Help me to learn how to explain the purpose of the core activities and demonstrate through my deeds, the purity of my motives.

Online

Understanding that central to the pattern of action evolving in a cluster is my ongoing transformation, effected through the Word of God, help me continue to produce materials for my website on weighty themes which help others to cultivate the habit of study and deep reflection upon the Creative Word, and to see the practical application of the Writings to everyday life problems.

Help me to learn through action, how to act more systematically, making goals and plans in quarterly cycles of activity and learning to depend more and more on the potent confirmations from the divine realm.

In the expansion phase, help me invest time and focused attention on marketing my materials through social media; and in the consolidation phase help me work more systematically at studying the relevant materials; writing and refining newsletters, books and blog postings.

In the spirit of love and detached from outcomes, help me to offer the Baha’i Councils, Institute Boards and Auxiliary Board Members articles which could help them in their work with individuals and communities. 

In my Role as Homefront Pioneer

While I long to be part of a cluster in which there are over a thousand inhabitants taking part in a well-established pattern of activity and being part of raising communities whose habits of thought and action are rooted in Baha’u’llah’s Revelation; and even participating in social action initiatives, I am willing to stay in my cluster as a homefront pioneer, trying to find and support a pocket of heightened receptivity.

Please help me to make a long-term commitment to my cluster and give me such a yearning to become so familiar with the reality of my town that I better integrate into local life and, eschewing any trace of prejudice or paternalism, form bonds of true friendship that befit companions on a spiritual journey.  

In My Role as Community Member: 

I know that the only way to initiate a process for building capacity within our cluster is to engage in the framework for action and I will continue to build my capacity outside the cluster, in preparation for a time when others in the cluster will assume their part in contributing to the spiritual and material well-being of their communities and begin to offer acts of service.

Help me to increase my capacity to serve ably at the cluster level by having people with whom I can

  • study the guidance
  • reflect on my actions in its light
  • draw insights therefrom
  • become connected with the wider body of knowledge being generated in surrounding clusters and further afield
  • develop and share an appreciation of the sophisticated set of operations through which a cluster develops

Please give me a nucleus of friends to work and consult with, as we find small centres of population in my town, where intense activity can be sustained.  Let me find people I can work with as teams of friends, serving together, offering mutual support, and building confidence so that, in time, the society-building power inherent in the Faith can become more visible.

Help me to be one of the many who experience the transformative effect of studying the Word of God together and let my life be touched in some way by the community’s activities.

Please help me:

  • Be open to the receptivity of those who are exposed to the divine teachings
  • willing to help the friends in other clusters, by sharing the materials I’ve gathered on my website
  • continue tutoring those in isolated communities as they proceed further through the sequence of courses and supporting them as they start to engage in service
  • organize gatherings for collective worship
  • be open to opportunities to visit friends at their homes or on the phone and study a prayer together or share a theme from the Baha’i teachings.

Understanding that growth can occur quickly when the right conditions are in place, please help me be patient while I wait for the number of people sharing this commitment to rise, and our collective capacity for undertaking systematic action within the framework of the Plan increases.

 Programs of Growth:

Please forgive me for not being able to apply all that had been learned from previous Plans to the work of extending the process of growth to my cluster.

You know how badly I long to see growth accelerate in our cluster, and notwithstanding the natural ebb that’s existed for several decades, please help me take this cluster solidly to the first milestone by the end of the plan.

Please let me remain open to the emergence of new programmes of growth, with assistance from clusters that neighbour our own.  Help me to organize and be an active participant in cluster-wide reflection meetings which generate a stronger feeling of responsibility among those attending.

Help me to see a sense of collective ownership become more apparent from cycle to cycle as we witness the force released by a united body of people taking charge of their spiritual development.

Let me learn to talk about the needs of the current plan in such a way that I can help people catch the vision.

I recognize that developments like these are yet a distant prospect for the members of our cluster so help me to help them see that in some places, this work of the moment results in a significant percentage of the entire population involved in community-building activities.  Help me to understand how a flourishing local population can transform the society of which it is an integral part.

By mid-way through the plan, help us to have reflection gatherings with those pursuing related lines of action so that we can regulate the pulsating heartbeat at all points of the cycle.

Let us all see a clear arc of progress over the course of the next twenty cycles, so that we can see a programme of growth become firmly established by Ridvan 2021. 

In My Role As A Member Of An Assembly: 

Although our Assembly is inactive, help me continue to make provisions for

  • gatherings for the Nineteen Day Feast
  • Holy Day commemorations
  • Baha’i elections

until such time as the Assembly is functioning again.

Help me to also:

  • encourage special programs to commemorate the two-hundred-year anniversaries of the Birth of Baha’u’llah in 2017 and the Birth of the Bab in 2019 and to attract the largest possible number of believers, their families, friends, and collaborators, as well as others from the wider society, to commemorate moments when a Being peerless in creation, a Manifestation of God, was born to the world.
  • Encourage special programs to commemorate the Centenary of the Ascension of ‘Abdu’l-Baha in November 2021

In My Role As Assistant:

In my role as assistant to the Auxiliary Board, let me work closely with the board member to maintain a clear and united vision of what is needed.

Help me continue to:

  • advise the friends in our cluster
  • expand their vision of what can be accomplished without seeking to impose my own expectations on them
  • keep abreast of, and share the lessons learned in the remotest parts of the planet so that our cluster can benefit from the worldwide process of learning and see that every follower of Baha’u’llah can take part
  • have a progressively deeper understanding of the Five Year Plan and over time, ensure that insights that arise from applying the guidance are recognized, articulated, absorbed, and shared.
  • become so familiar with the relevant guidance that I can help illuminate deliberations by calling attention to pertinent considerations
  • fan into flame a passion for teaching
  • encourage gatherings for worship to be integrated into the core of community life throughout the cluster so that:
  • every soul may enter and feel welcome
  • everyone will inhale the heavenly fragrances, experience the sweetness of prayer, meditate upon the Creative Word, be transported on the wings of the spirit, and commune with the one Beloved.
  • feelings of fellowship and common cause are generated, particularly in the spiritually heightened conversations that naturally occur at such times
  • the “city of the human heart” may be opened

When others are ready to engage in a planning process; help me to help them gradually enhance their ability to devise and implement a course of action informed by familiarity with actual conditions in our community.  Help me to ensure that each element of the growth process attains the requisite characteristics and that the integrity and coherence of all the endeavours are maintained.

Help me to assist the friends everywhere (in my cluster and online) to appreciate that, for existing programmes of growth to continue to gain strength, the strategy of initiating community-building activities in neighbourhoods and villages that show promise must be widely adopted and systematically followed.

With regards to the Funds of the Faith and the Right of God, help me to continually encourage the friends to:

  • manage their financial affairs in the light of the teachings.
  • cultivate a set of attitudes towards wealth and possessions very different from those holding sway in the world

And to understand that:

  • the habit of regularly giving to the Funds of the Faith arises from and reinforce a sense of personal concern for the welfare of the community and the progress of the Cause.
  • the duty to contribute, just like the duty to teach, is a fundamental aspect of Baha’i identity which strengthens faith
  • our sacrificial and generous contributions can be regarded as expressions of the love that binds us more closely together
  • voluntary giving fosters an awareness that managing one’s financial affairs in accordance with spiritual principles is an indispensable dimension of a life lived coherently.
  • it is a matter of conscience, a way in which commitment to the betterment of the world is translated into practice.

In My Role As Tutor:

Help me connect with and work with the institute board to find creative solutions to improve the quality of my role as tutor, particularly avoiding these two undesirable outcomes:

  • taking people through the courses of the institute too hastily, so the capacity to serve is not sufficiently developed
  • prolonging the process and robbing it of the dynamism essential to its advancement

Please also help me build capacity in others by swiftly helping make arrangements to accompany them into the arena of service, understanding that

  • an adequate level of support extends far beyond encouraging words.
  • working alongside a person with some experience increases consciousness of what is possible.
  • an assurance of practical help can give a tentative venturer the courage to initiate an activity for the first time.

Help me to become part of a growing number of tutors who, cycle after cycle, offer the full sequence of institute courses between them, at times with marked intensity.

Help me to instill right from the very beginning in those who participate, a belief that they are protagonists in a noble endeavour to build the world anew.

Conclusion:

I know that the coming plan will call for the

  • application of proven strategies
  • systematic action
  • informed analysis
  • keen insight

Please let me achieve these goals.

Please let my actions always to be motivated by a desire to see capacity develop in others and to foster friendships founded on cooperation and reciprocity.

Help me to see everyone as a potential collaborator in a collective enterprise, and appreciate my own part in nurturing a spirit of common purpose in the community, even if for this plan, it has to be the world-wide community of those who come in contact with the materials on my website.

I know that to reach these objectives is truly a formidable undertaking and that a herculean effort will be required; and many sacrifices will have to be made, but God willing, please let my exertions prove worthy to crown a hundred years of toil and set the stage for exploits as yet unimagined that must adorn the second century of the Formative Age.

In all my endeavors, please let me evince a prevalent attitude of joyful service, flexibility, and detachment from personal preferences so that I can give even routine administrative activities a sacred quality.

I can’t see who I might be able to work together with during the coming plan or how it might test my capacity, but no matter what, let me preserve a unified spirit among all who work together.

And let the world’s desperate condition not plunge me into despair, but impel me to find the urgency to act systematically, and to make the herculean effort necessary to achieve all that my capacity allows me to achieve.  Let me occupy myself with teaching the Cause of God and training all that dwell on earth.

Ya Baha’u’l-Abha!

Ya Allahu’l-Mustaghath!

Teaching Photos by Bertha Petruski

This calligraphy and paste-paper on which it is written were done by Bertha Petruski. She wishes them to be used by Baha’is for any teaching or comfort they may bring. Along with Baha’i quotes there are some Biblical quotes and non-Baha’i sayings which have inspirational messages.  Bertha has been a Baha’i and calligrapher for about forty years and lives in Massachusetts, USA.

Bahá’í Education of Children

 

As part of my series on parenting, I thought I’d look at the Bahá’í education of children.  Let’s have a look at what the Bahá’í Writings have to say!

Who Has The Primary Responsibility for Educating Children?

Mothers are supposed to make the child’s education as their first importance:

Let the mothers consider that whatever concerneth the education of children is of the first importance. Let them put forth every effort in this regard, for when the bough is green and tender it will grow in whatever way ye train it.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 289-290)

Mothers must provide spiritual training right from the beginning:

Thou didst ask as to the education of children. Those children who, sheltered by the Blessed Tree, have set foot upon the world, those who are cradled in the Faith and are nurtured at the breast of grace—such must from the beginning receive spiritual training directly from their mothers. (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 280-282)

Fathers also have the responsibility of educating their children

Although the mother is the first educator of the child, and the most important formative influence in his development, the father also has the responsibility of educating his children.  (The Universal House of Justice, 1980 Dec 28, The Relationship Between Husband and Wife)

Both parents must train their children with life and heart in the school of virtue and perfection:

Therefore, the beloved of God and the maid-servants of the Merciful must train their children with life and heart and teach them in the school of virtue and perfection. They must not be lax in this matter; they must not be inefficient. (Abdu’l-Bahá, Baha’i World Faith, p. 398-399)

 Both parents should counsel their children in goodly character, over a long period:

Ye should consider the question of goodly character as of the first importance. It is incumbent upon every father and mother to counsel their children over a long period, and guide them unto those things which lead to everlasting honour.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá: Selections from the Writings of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá. pp. 133-134)

Both parents are in a critical position to shape the spiritual development of their children:

Independent of the level of their education, parents are in a critical position to shape the spiritual development of their children. They should not ever underestimate their capacity to mold their children’s moral character. For they exercise indispensable influence through the home environment they consciously create by their love of God, their striving to adhere to His laws, their spirit of service to His Cause, their lack of fanaticism, and their freedom from the corrosive effects of backbiting. (The Universal House of Justice, Ridvan 157, 2000, p. 9)

Responsibility for the spiritual education of children is not the exclusive responsibility of the community:

And now we wish to address a few words to parents, who bear the primary responsibility for the upbringing of their children. We appeal to them to give constant attention to the spiritual education of their children. Some parents appear to think that this is the exclusive responsibility of the community; others believe that in order to preserve the independence of children to investigate truth, the Faith should not be taught to them. Still others feel inadequate to take on such a task. None of this is correct. The beloved Master has said that “it is enjoined upon the father and mother, as a duty, to strive with all effort to train the daughter and the son,” adding that, “should they neglect this matter, they shall be held responsible and worthy of reproach in the presence of the stern Lord.”  (The Universal House of Justice, Ridvan 157, 2000, p. 9)

Spiritual Assemblies should provide mothers with a well-planned programme for the education of children:

It is incumbent upon the Spiritual Assemblies to provide the mothers with a well-planned programme for the education of children, showing how, from infancy, the child must be watched over and taught. These instructions must be given to every mother to serve her as a guide, so that each will train and nurture her children in accordance with the Teachings.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá: Selections from the Writings of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá, p. 138)

What is a Mother’s Responsibility?

The task of bringing up a Bahá’í child, as emphasized time and again in Bahá’í writings, is the chief responsibility of the mother:

The task of bringing up a Bahá’í child, as emphasized time and again in Bahá’í writings, is the chief responsibility of the mother, whose unique privilege is indeed to create in her home such conditions as would be most conducive to both his material and spiritual welfare and advancement. The training which the child first receives through his mother constitutes the strongest foundation for his future development.  (Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 148)

Mothers must establish faith and certitude; the love for and fear of God, and all good qualities and traits within their children:

Therefore is it incumbent upon the mothers to rear their little ones even as a gardener tendeth his young plants. Let them strive by day and by night to establish within their children faith and certitude, the fear of God, the love of the Beloved of the worlds, and all good qualities and traits. (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 289-290)

Women should be encouraged to attract their husbands and male members of their families to the Faith:

Women should also be encouraged to attract their husbands and male members of their families to the Faith so that the Bahá’í community will be representative of the society of which it forms a part. Gradually the spirit of unity and fellowship, as set forth in our teachings, will be reflected in the life of Bahá’í families.  (Universal House of Justice, Lights of Guidance, p. 616)

This is because if the mother is a believer, the children will become believers too, even if the father denies the Faith; while, if the mother is not a believer, the children are deprived of faith, even if the father be a believer convinced and firm:

Consider that if the mother is a believer, the children will become believers too, even if the father denieth the Faith; while, if the mother is not a believer, the children are deprived of faith, even if the father be a believer convinced and firm. Such is the usual outcome, except in rare cases.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 287)

What is a Father’s Responsibility?

The primary responsibility for supporting the family financially is placed upon the husband:

Similarly, although the primary responsibility for supporting the family financially is placed upon the husband, this does not by any means imply that the place of woman is confined to the home.  (The Universal House of Justice, 1980 Dec 28, The Relationship Between Husband and Wife)

Fathers also have the responsibility of educating their children

Although the mother is the first educator of the child, and the most important formative influence in his development, the father also has the responsibility of educating his children.  (The Universal House of Justice, 1980 Dec 28, The Relationship Between Husband and Wife)

Why Do We Educate Our Own Children?

Education and training of children are recorded in the Book of God as obligatory and not voluntary, for both the father and mother:

In this New Cycle, education and training are recorded in the Book of God as obligatory and not voluntary. That is, it is enjoined upon the father and mother, as a duty, to strive with all effort to train the daughter and the son, to nurse them from the breast of knowledge and to rear them in the bosom of sciences and arts. (Abdu’l-Bahá, Baha’i World Faith, p. 398-399)

The connection between mother and child is so strong, that even her thoughts can put a child to sleep:

A mother rocks and rocks her babe to sleep in a cradle, but the thoughts of the child’s sleep may so take possession of her mind that sometimes she is able to put him to sleep without the aid of the cradle. This effect is produced by the mother’s magnetism.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, Lights of Guidance, p. 517)

If children are raised to be spiritual and godly Bahá’ís, they will remain safe from every test:

The children must, from their infancy, be raised to be spiritual and godly Bahá’ís. If such be their training, they will remain safe from every test.  (‘Abdul-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 274-275)

 When Does Baha’i Education Begin?

Systematic training begins in the nursery; they must learn though play, amusement and speech and not through books:

These children must be given a good training from their earliest childhood. They must be given a systematic training which will further their development from day to day, in order that they may receive greater insight, so that their spiritual receptivity be broadened. Beginning in childhood they must receive instruction. They cannot be taught through books. Many elementary sciences must be made clear to them in the nursery; they must learn them in play, in amusement. Most ideas must be taught them through speech, not by book learning. (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, Bahá’í Education, p. 73)

Classes for children under the age of five can be held provided you keep in mind that their attention span is relatively short so the duration of classes should be measured accordingly:

The House of Justice adds that you should feel free to hold classes for children under the age of five provided you keep in mind that their attention span is relatively short and so the duration of their class periods should be measured accordingly.  (Universal House of Justice, Lights of Guidance, p. 147)

 When the child has reached the age where he can make distinctions, let him be placed in a Bahá’í school:

And when the child hath reached the age where he can make distinctions, let him be placed in a Bahá’í school, in which at the beginning the Holy Texts are recited and religious concepts are taught. At this school the child is to study reading and writing as well as some fundamentals of the various branches of knowledge, such as can be learned by children.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 280-282)

From the age of five their formal education must begin so during the daytime they should be looked after in a place where there are teachers:

From the age of five their formal education must begin. That is, during the daytime they should be looked after in a place where there are teachers, and should learn good conduct.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá: Bahá’í Education, pp. 39-40) 

When Do Children Study?

Every morning, teach them to chant and recite the communes and prayers:

Every day at first light, ye gather the Bahá’í children together and teach them the communes and prayers. This is a most praiseworthy act, and bringeth joy to the children’s hearts: that they should, at every morn, turn their faces toward the Kingdom and make mention of the Lord and praise His Name, and in the sweetest of voices, chant and recite.  (‘Abdul-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of ‘Abdu’l-Baha, p. 139)

The children must study every day, from morning till noon, so they learn to read and acquire an art or skill:

He must study every day from morning till noon, so that he may learn how to read and write. From noon till about sunset he should acquire a craft. The children must both learn to read and acquire an art or skill.  (‘Abdul-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 3)

When the children are ready for bed, let the mother read or sing them the Odes of the Blessed Beauty, so that from their earliest years they will be educated by these verses of guidance:

When the children are ready for bed, let the mother read or sing them the Odes of the Blessed Beauty, so that from their earliest years they will be educated by these verses of guidance.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá: Bahá’í Education, pp. 39-40) 

Where Are They Taught?

We should avoid sending Bahá’í children to orthodox religious schools, especially Catholic:

He is sorry to hear your little boy is not developing satisfactorily; very few children are really bad. They do, however, sometimes have complicated personalities and need very wise handling to enable them to grow into normal, moral, happy adults. If you feel convinced your son will really benefit from going to….,…’s school you could send him there. But in general we should certainly always avoid sending Bahá’í children to orthodox religious schools, especially Catholic, as the children receive the imprint of religious beliefs we as believers know are out-dated and no longer for this age. He will especially pray for the solution of this problem.  (Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 151) 

What is the Standard for Baha’i Education?

Whatever other children learn in a year, Bahá’í children should learn in a month:

It is incumbent upon Bahá’í children to surpass other children in the acquisition of sciences and arts, for they have been cradled in the grace of God.  Whatever other children learn in a year, let Bahá’í children learn in a month.  (Abdu’l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of Abdu’l-Bahá, p. 140)

What Should Children be Taught?

Let all the lesson be entirely devoted to the acquisitions of human perfections:

The subjects to be taught in children’s schools are many, and for lack of time We can touch on only a few: First and most important is training in behavior and  good character; the rectification of qualities; arousing the desire to become accomplished and acquire perfections, and to cleave unto the religion of God and stand firm in His Laws: to accord total obedience to every just government, to show forth loyalty and trustworthiness to the ruler of the time, to be well wishers of mankind, to be kind to all.  And further, as well as in the ideals of character, instruction in such arts and sciences as are benefit, and in foreign tongues. Also, the repeating of prayers for the well-being of ruler and ruled; and the avoidance of materialistic works that are current among those who see only natural causation, and tales of love, and books that arouse the passions.  To sum up, let all the lesson be entirely devoted to the acquisitions of human perfections.  (‘Abdu’l-Baha, Lights of Guidance, p. 147)

From their earliest years, children should be taught to deliver speeches of high quality:

Encourage ye the school children, from their earliest years, to deliver speeches of high quality, so that in their leisure time they will engage in giving cogent and effective talks, expressing themselves with clarity and eloquence.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá: Selections from the Writings of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá. pp. 133-134)

During ‘Abdu’l-Baha’s days it was a usual work of the children to learn Tablets by heart:

The Master used to attach much importance to the learning by heart of the Tablets of Bahá’u’lláh and the Báb. During His days it was a usual work of the children of the household to learn Tablets by heart’ now, however, those children are grown up and do not have time for such a thing. But the practice is most useful to implant the ideas and spirit those words contain into the mind of the children.  (Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 150)

The Dawn Breakers has interesting stories about the early days of the Faith, which children like to hear:

With ‘the Dawn- Breakers’ in your possession you could also arrange interesting stories about the early days of the Movement which the children would like to hear. There are also stories about the life of Christ, Muhammad and the other Prophets which if told to the children will break down any religious prejudice they may have learned from older people of little understanding.  (Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 150)

 They should be educated in several languages at once:

At the start the teacher must place a pen in the child’s hand, arrange the children in groups, and instruct each group according to its capacity. When the children have, in a given place, been seated in rows, and each holdeth a pen, and each hath a paper before him, and the teacher hath suspended a blackboard in front of the children, let him write thereon with his chalk and have the children copy what he hath written. For example, let the teacher write an alif (a) and say, “This is an alif.” Let the children then copy it and repeat: “This is an alif.” And so on, till the end of the alphabet.

As soon as they properly recognize the letters, let the teacher make combinations of the letters, while the children follow his lead, writing the combinations on their paper, until, by this method, they come to recognize all the letters, singly and combined in words. Let the teacher then proceed to writing sentences, while the children copy what he hath written, each on his own sheet of paper. Let the teacher then explain the meaning of the sentence to the children.

And once they have become skilled in the Persian tongue, let the teacher first translate and write out single words and ask the students the meaning of those words. If a pupil hath grasped a little of this, and hath translated the word, let the teacher praise him; if all the students are unable to accomplish this, let the teacher write the foreign language translation beneath the given word. For example, let him write sama (heaven) in Arabic, and ask: “How do we say this in Persian?” If one of the children replieth, “The Persian translation of this word is asiman”, let the teacher praise and encourage him. If they are unable to answer, let the teacher himself give the translation and write it down, and let the children copy it.  Later, let the teacher ask: “How do they say this in Russian, or French, or Turkish?” If they know the answer, excellent. If not, let the teacher say, “In Russian, or French, the translation is thus and so”, write the word on the board, and have the children copy it down. When the children have become skilled in translating single words, let the teacher combine the words into a sentence, write this on the board and ask the children to translate it. If they are unable, let the teacher himself translate the sentence and write down the translation. It would of course be preferable for him to make use of several languages.  In this way, over a short period — that is, three years- -the children will, as a result of writing the words down, become fully proficient in a number of languages, and will be able to translate a passage from one language to another.

Once they have become skilled in these fundamentals, let them go on to learning the elements of the other branches of knowledge, and once they have completed this study, let each one who is able and hath a keen desire for it, enroll in higher institutions of learning and study advanced courses in the sciences and arts.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 280-282) 

How Should Children be Taught?

Mothers must continually call God to mind and make mention of Him, and tell of His greatness, and instill the fear of Him in the child, and rear the child gently, in the way of tenderness:

That is, the mother must continually call God to mind and make mention of Him, and tell of His greatness, and instill the fear of Him in the child, and rear the child gently, in the way of tenderness, and in extreme cleanliness. Thus from the very beginning of life every child will be refreshed by the gentle wafting of the love of God and will tremble with joy at the sweet scent of heavenly guidance. In this lieth the beginning of the process; it is the essential basis of all the rest.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 280-282)

Children should be taught to read through play:

Here they should be taught, in play, some letters and words and a little reading — as is done in certain countries where they fashion letters and words out of sweets and give them to the child. For example, they make an ‘a’ out of candy and say its name is ‘a’, or make a candy ‘b’ and call it ‘b’, and so on with the rest of the alphabet, giving these to the young child. In this way children will soon learn their letters.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá: Bahá’í Education, pp. 39-40) 

They should be taught through questions and answers:

One child must question the other concerning these things, and the other child must give the answer. In this way, they will make great progress. For example, mathematical problems must also be taught in the form of questions and answers. One of the children asks a question and the other must give the answer. Later on, the children will of their own accord speak with each other concerning these same subjects. The children who are at the head of the class must receive premiums. They must be encouraged and when any one of them shows good advancement, for the further development they must be praised and encouraged therein. Even so in godlike affairs. Oral questions must be asked and the answers must be given orally. They must discuss with each other in this manner.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, Bahá’í Education, p. 73) 

Are Daughters and Sons Taught the Same?

Both Daughters and sons must follow the same curriculum of study:

Daughters and sons must follow the same curriculum of study, thereby promoting unity of the sexes. (‘Abdu’l-Bahá: The Promulgation of Universal Peace, pp. 174-175)

The training and culture of daughters is more necessary than that of sons, for these girls will come to the station of motherhood and will mold the lives of the children:

If it be considered through the eye of reality, the training and culture of daughters is more necessary than that of sons, for these girls will come to the station of motherhood and will mold the lives of the children.  (Abdu’l-Bahá, Baha’i World Faith, p. 399)

What About Higher Education?

The child’s own preference and inclinations should direct his advanced studies:

Not all, however, will be able to engage in these advanced studies. Therefore, such children must be sent to industrial schools where they can also acquire technical skills, and once the child becomes proficient in such a skill, then let consideration be given to the child’s own preference and inclinations. If a child hath a liking for commerce, then let him choose commerce; if industry, then industry; if for higher education, then the advancement of knowledge; if for some other of the responsibilities of humankind, then that. Let him be placed in the field for which he hath an inclination, a desire, and a talent.   (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 280-282)

What Happens to Parent’s Who Don’t Meet Their Responsibility?

This responsibility for the education of children is so weighty that failure to exercise it is an unpardonable sin, for which parents will be held responsible and worthy of reproach in the presence of the stern Lord:

Should they neglect this matter, they shall be held responsible and worthy of reproach in the presence of the stern Lord. This is a sin unpardonable.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá, Bahá’í World Faith, p. 398-399)

They could even lose the rights of parenthood:

This responsibility is so weighty that Bahá’u’lláh has stated that a father who fails to exercise it forfeits his rights of fatherhood.
(The Universal House of Justice, 1980 Dec 28, The Relationship Between Husband and Wife)

Where Do We Go To Learn More About This Training?

Spiritual Assemblies should provide mothers with a well-planned programme for the education of children:

It is incumbent upon the Spiritual Assemblies to provide the mothers with a well-planned programme for the education of children, showing how, from infancy, the child must be watched over and taught. These instructions must be given to every mother to serve her as a guide, so that each will train and nurture her children in accordance with the Teachings.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá: Selections from the Writings of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá, p. 138)

Single parents could also benefit by encouraging access to counseling or support services, ensuring that transportation to needed services or Bahá’í activities is available, and offering scholarships to Bahá’í conferences, schools and workshops:

The single parent may suffer from inadequate material resources, lack of skills and confidence, and the emotional support of a partner in parenting. The Assembly may wish to assist by encouraging access to whatever counseling or support services may be available, by ensuring that transportation to needed services or Bahá’í activities is available, and offering scholarships to Bahá’í conferences, schools and workshops.  (National Spiritual Assembly of the Bahá’ís of the United States, Guidelines for Spiritual Assemblies on Domestic Violence, p. 130)

What Would This Training Consist Of?

Your efforts should focus on helping parents in their function as educators of the rising generation; and women should be encouraged to attract their husbands and male members of their families to the Faith:

The House of Justice regards the need to educate and guide women in their primary responsibility as mothers as an excellent opportunity for organizing women’s activities. Your efforts should focus on helping them in their function as educators of the rising generation. (Universal House of Justice, Lights of Guidance, p. 616)

Children’s Classes

In addition to the efforts made at home, the parents should support Bahá’í children’s classes:

Of course, in addition to the efforts made at home, the parents should support Bahá’í children’s classes provided by the community. It must be borne in mind, too, that children live in a world that informs them of harsh realities through direct experience with the horrors already described or through the unavoidable outpourings of the mass media. Many of them are thereby forced to mature prematurely, and among these are those who look for standards and discipline by which to guide their lives. Against this gloomy backdrop of a decadent society, Bahá’í children should shine as the emblems of a better future.  (The Universal House of Justice, Ridvan 157, 2000, p. 9)

The Role of Children’s Class Teachers

Among the greatest of all services that can possibly be rendered is the education and training of children… It is very difficult to undertake and even harder to succeed at it:

Among the greatest of all services that can possibly be rendered by man to Almighty God is the education and training of children… It is, however, very difficult to undertake this service, even harder to succeed in it. I hope that thou wilt acquit thyself well in this most important of tasks, and successfully carry the day, and become an ensign of God’s abounding Grace; that these children, reared one and all in the holy Teachings, will develop natures like unto the sweet airs that blow across the gardens of the All- Glorious, and will waft their fragrance around the world.  (‘Abdu’l-Bahá: Selections from the Writings of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá. pp. 133-134)

Among the greatest of all great services is the education of children and the more you persevere in this most important task, the more will you witness the confirmations of God:

Among the greatest of all great services is the education of children, and promotion of the various sciences, crafts and arts. Praised be God, ye are now exerting strenuous efforts toward this end. The more ye persevere in this most important task, the more will ye witness the confirmations of God, to such a degree that ye yourselves will be astonished.  This verily is a matter beyond all doubt, a pledge that shall certainly be redeemed.  (‘Abdul-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 276)

Children’s teachers are servants of the Lord God and must offer praise with every breath, for being able to educate their spiritual children:

Praise thou God that thou hast succeeded in becoming a teacher of young Bahá’ís, young trees of the Bahá Paradise, and at the same time art able to benefit the other children as well. According to the explicit divine Text, teaching the children is indispensable and obligatory. It followeth that teachers are servants of the Lord God, since they have arisen to perform this task, which is the same as worship. You must therefore offer praise with every breath, for you are educating your spiritual children. (‘Abdul-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 273-274)

The spiritual father is even greater than the physical one, for he endows his child with life everlasting:

The spiritual father is greater than the physical one, for the latter bestoweth but this world’s life, whereas the former endoweth his child with life everlasting. This is why, in the Law of God, teachers are listed among the heirs.  Now you in reality have acquired all these spiritual children free and gratis, and that is better than having physical children; for such children are not grateful to their fathers, since they feel that the father serveth them because he must — and therefore no matter what he doeth for them, they pay it no mind. Spiritual children, however, are always appreciative of their father’s loving kindness. This verily is out of the grace of thy Lord, the Beneficent.  (‘Abdul-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 273-274)

Teachers of children’s classes have every reason to feel pride:

O thou teacher of the children of the kingdom! Thou hast arisen to perform a service which would justly entitle thee to vaunt thyself over all the teachers on earth. For the teachers of this world make use of human education to develop the powers, whether spiritual or material, of humankind, whilst thou art training these young plants in the gardens of God according to the education of Heaven, and art giving them the lessons of the Kingdom. The result of this kind of teaching will be that it will attract the blessings of God, and make manifest the perfections of man.  Hold thou fast to this kind of teaching, for the fruits of it will be very great. (‘Abdul-Bahá, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 274-275)

 

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Why Do People Resign from the Bahá’í Faith?

 

Recently three of my friends resigned from the Faith within a short period of time, all long-term, deepened, dedicated, pioneers.  Their resignations hit me hard and even scared me!  If it happened to them, maybe it could happen to me too!

All of a sudden I understood why Rúhíyyih Khanum always wanted people to pray for her steadfastness – any of us can lose it so quickly!

He should forgive the sinful, and never despise his low estate, for none knoweth what his own end shall be. How often hath a sinner attained, at the hour of death, to the essence of faith, and, quaffing the immortal draught, hath taken his flight unto the Concourse on high! And how often hath a devout believer, at the hour of his soul’s ascension, been so changed as to fall into the nethermost fire!  (Baha’u’llah, Gleanings from the Writings of Baha’u’llah, p. 265)

As I always do whenever I don’t understand something, I turn to the Writings to find the answers – in this case – why do people resign?  Let’s take a look at what I discovered!

Some have been the victims of backbiting – which is the leading cause of withdrawal:

If any soul speak ill of an absent one, the only result will clearly be this: he will dampen the zeal of the friends and tend to make them indifferent. For backbiting is divisive, it is the leading cause among the friends of a disposition to withdraw. (‘Abdu’l-Bahá: Selections From The Writings of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá, pp. 230-231)

Some were not educated and deepened after they declared:

It is not enough to bring people into the Faith, one must educate them and deepen their love for it and their knowledge of its teachings, after they declare themselves. As the Bahá’ís are few in number, especially the active teachers, and there is a great deal of work to be done, the education of these new believers is often sadly neglected, and then results are seen such as the resignations you have had recently.  (Universal House of Justice, Lights of Guidance, p. 567)

Some needed more help and comradeship than they received:

If some of these isolated and inactive people gradually turn to other work than the Cause we should not always blame them — they probably needed more help, more stimulating more teaching and Bahá’í comradeship that they received.  (Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 84)

Some ceased to go on developing; became complacent, or indifferent, and stopped drawing spiritual strength and vitality from the Cause:

Many of those who drift away from the Cause do so for the reason that they had ceased to go on developing. They became complacent, or indifferent, and consequently ceased to draw the spiritual strength and vitality from the Cause which they should have. (Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 113)

Some people fail to meet their tests – often which come from each other:

Sometimes, of course, people fail because of a test they just do not meet, and often our severest tests come from each other. Certainly the believers should try to avert such things, and if they happen, remedy them through love.   (Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 113)

Some withdraw to relieve tension and alleviate feelings of enmity that have arisen:

Embarking on an action reminiscent of His solitary retirement to the mountains of Kurdistan when the unfaithful were shamefully destroying the Cause of God, Bahá’u’lláh, who at this time was residing in the house of Amru’llah, withdrew with His family to the nearby house of Rida Big which was rented by His order, and refused to associate with anybody. This was on 10 March 1866. The reason for this withdrawal, which fortunately was of short duration, was similar to that which had motivated Him to retire to Kurdistan a decade earlier: namely, to relieve the tension and alleviate the feelings of enmity which during the course of years had been engendered in the hearts of some by Mírzá Yahyá and were fanned into flame by his latest actions.  (Adib Taherzadeh, The Child of the Covenant, p. 120)

Some have busied themselves with the things of this world:

Grieve thou not over those that have busied themselves with the things of this world, and have forgotten the remembrance of God, the Most Great. By Him Who is the Eternal Truth! The day is approaching when the wrathful anger of the Almighty will have taken hold of them. He, verily, is the Omnipotent, the All-Subduing, the Most Powerful. He shall cleanse the earth from the defilement of their corruption, and shall give it for an heritage unto such of His servants as are nigh unto Him.  (Baha’u’llah, Gleanings from the Writings of Baha’u’llah, p. 207)

Some have lost their vision of the Cause, or never had a proper grasp of its implications before entering it:

Just because some people have lost their vision of the Cause, or never had a proper grasp of its implications before entering it, and leave the fold, should not cause undue discouragement. There are bound to be such cases, and although every moral support should be given them, if they still wish to withdraw, they fall off — as you said — like withered leaves from the Tree of the Faith, and do it no real harm.  (Shoghi Effendi, The Unfolding Destiny of the British Baha’i Community, p. 448)

Some allows their own ideals and purposes to retain their pre-eminence and leave when they find they cannot pursue them as they wish:

It is not unusual for people to be drawn to the Faith because they see in it the fulfilment of the ideals which are dear to their hearts. But, if a soul truly recognizes Bahá’u’lláh, and his understanding of the teachings deepens, he will gradually see how his own ideals are but facets in the all-embracing Purpose of God, and will be willing to endure all manner of suffering and frustration for the sake of the fulfilment of that divine Purpose. If, however, the believer allows his own ideals and purposes to retain their pre-eminence in his thinking, and he finds he cannot pursue them as he wishes, it may result in his leaving the Faith to pursue them in other ways. This is what would seem to have happened to the friends you speak of.  (The Universal House of Justice, 1989 Jun 21, ‘Dialogue’, ‘A Modest Proposal’ etc)

Some find the bitterness of discord sweet:

In a similar way, thou beholdest some women who have abandoned the Testament, and to them the bitterness of discord is sweet. They keep aloof from the Extended Shadow and dwell under the shade of a “black smoke.” Alas for them and grief for them! They will surely lament and find themselves in loss. Verily, this is but an evident truth!  (Abdu’l-Bahá, Tablets of Abdu’l-Bahá v1, p. 130)

Some resign so they can break a law with impunity:

A believer cannot escape administrative expulsion by the ruse of resigning from the Faith in order to break its law with impunity. However, the Assembly should be satisfied that there was indeed such an ulterior motive behind the withdrawal. A believer’s record of inactivity and his general attitude to the Faith may well lead the Assembly to conclude that his withdrawal was bona fide . . . and in such a case the withdrawal may be accepted.  (Universal House of Justice, NSA USA – Developing Distinctive Baha’i Communities)

Or worse, some have dissimulated their faith so they can break a law:

To deny that one is a Bahá’í while one still believes in Bahá’u’lláh is not withdrawal, it is dissimulation of one’s faith, and Bahá’í laws does not countenance the dissimulation of a believer’s faith for the purpose of breaking the law. “If a believer who did not like a particular law were to be permitted to leave the community to break the law, and then rejoin with impunity, this would make a mockery of the Law of God… It is abundantly clear from his letters that he has continually believed in Bahá’u’lláh, that he know the law that marriage is conditioned on the consent of parents, that he dissimulated his faith in order to be able to break this law with impunity. He must, therefore, be regarded as a Bahá’í without administrative rights… (Universal House of Justice, Lights of Guidance, p. 57-58)

How do we treat those who have resigned?

We associate with them in joy and fragrance:

In general, however, a person who has withdrawn from the Faith is regarded as being among the generality of humankind with whom the Bahá’ís are enjoined to associate “in joy and fragrance”.   (Universal House of Justice, Withdrawal from the Faith, 4 April 2001)

Assemblies dealing with this issue do not to take any overt action other than noting the matter in its records; being cautious about accepting a subsequent declaration until satisfied it has been made in good faith; and that they have taken steps to rectify the action taken in violation of Bahá’í law, which led to their resignation:

Sometimes, after a person’s withdrawal from the Cause has been accepted, it becomes evident that his statements were insincere and were made merely in order to evade Bahá’í law. The Assembly need not take any overt action in such a case, but would note the matter in its records. In other words, it would have to be cautious about accepting a subsequent declaration of belief from this individual until satisfied that it is made in good faith. Also, depending upon the circumstances, the Assembly might require him to rectify the action, taken in violation of Bahá’í law, which was the motive for his withdrawing from the Faith.  (Universal House of Justice, Withdrawal from the Faith, 4 April 2001)

Is there anything we can do to prevent it?

From the above quotes, we see the following:

  • Stop backbiting!
  • Educate new believers and deepen their love for the Faith and their knowledge of its teachings
  • Give them more help, more stimulation, more teaching and Bahá’í comradeship
  • Avert problems, and if they happen, remedy them through love
  • Find ways to relieve tension and alleviate feelings of enmity
  • Give them moral support
  • Don’t blame them
  • Fan their faith in Bahá’u’lláh into flame
  • Don’t grieve or feel undue discouragement over those that have busied themselves with the things of this world
  • Understand that their resignations will do no real harm to the Faith

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